Children left vulnerable as parents avoid teaching consent

 
- Over half of parents believe it is only appropriate to start  teaching children about consent and their body after school age,  leaving children aged 0 – 4 vulnerable to sexual abuse
- Less than half of Australian parents, carers and  grandparents have been open with their kids about consent and their  body, despite 89% of adults saying it is the parents' responsibility 
- This Child Protection Week (5th – 11th September 2021), Act  for Kids is encouraging parents to talk to their kids about consent from  a young age and are advocating for improved education for parents and  mandated protective behaviours programs in schools to help keep  Australia's future generations safe
 
New research reveals less than half (44%) of parents, carers and  grandparents have been open with their children about consent, despite  89% of adults saying it is the parents' responsibility to educate them.
 
The new data from 
Act for Kids also found over half (56%) of Australian adults believe it is  appropriate to start teaching children about consent and their body  after school age
[1].  However, this revelation raises serious concerns as children aged  between 0-4 are most at-risk of abuse and neglect in Australia. In  2019-2020, a staggering 11,700 infants under the age of one received  child protection services
[2].
 
"The research shows there is a  significant lack of knowledge about why it is important to talk about  consent, relationships and body ownership with children in the first  five years of their life," Act for Kids Chief Executive Officer Doctor  Katrina Lines said.
 
The concept of bodily autonomy  continues to be misunderstood, with 69% of Australians believing that  adults shouldn't have to ask children for permission before they touch  them.
 
Worryingly, more than a third (36%) of  parents with children under the age of 18 doubt if their child  understands what consent is and only 29% of parents admit the words  penis and vagina are normal in their child's vocabulary.
 
"Unfortunately, we know from the  research not everyone is having conversations about consent which is  leaving too many children vulnerable.
 
"The early stages of a child's life  are crucial for development. It's where they grow physically and  emotionally, but also begin forming social connections.
 
"Teaching children consent from a  young age can be as simple as using the correct language for body parts  rather than euphemisms, or explaining your actions in your child's  routines, such as bathing. Rather than just forcing them to bath, try  explaining what you're doing and why it is important," Dr Lines  explained.
 
As the National Office for Child  Safety continues to develop the National Strategy to Prevent Child  Sexual Abuse, parents are encouraged to educate their children on  consent and the correct anatomical language for all body parts. This  comes as sex offenders were found to be less likely to act on a child if  the child knew correct names for their body parts
[3].
 
This year's Child Protection Week theme is 'Every Child In Every Community Needs a Fair Go' and Act for Kids strongly believes every child deserves a fair go when it comes to protecting their own body.
 
This Child Protection Week (5th – 11th September 2021), Act for Kids is encouraging parents to talk to their  kids about consent from a young age, using age appropriate language.
 
The organisation joins other child  advocates, including Chanel Contos in calling for improved education for  parents and mandated protective behaviours programs in schools to help  keep Australia's future generations safe.
 
[1] The research by Act for Kids was carried out on a national  representative sample of 2,008 Australians aged 18 and over in August  2021. Methodology: The data sample was weighted against ABS data for  age, gender and location using an online survey that is independently  conducted and verified PureProfile.