The Journal: Messages to Kara

The Journal: Messages to Kara

What woman wouldn't want to see into the heart and soul of a man and find a deep, enduring love? What are those closely held thoughts and feelings underneath the surface of a man's stoic exterior?

Blake Matthew James breaks the silence with his new book The Journal: Messages to Kara. Based on a true story, James takes the reader on a journey from a love at first sight meeting, through the many obstacles that fate throws his way, and the journal that he used to chronicle his feelings. Told from the male perspective, The Journal is an honest recount of a man's innermost thoughts and feelings for the love of his life.

"We have all had a love that got away," says James. "And this story may motivate others to find that person that meant so much to them."

The character of Joe uses Facebook to locate his lost love, Kara, and reconnect with her after 17 years apart. What ensues is a very old tale of unrequited love, with the very modern tools of social networking and email influencing and changing the relationship.

"I believe that love can overcome all things if we are open to it," says James. "It's important to do whatever you can to be with the person that you love and show them you are willing to do what it takes to earn their respect and trust. That's what I want readers to take away from this story."

Blake Matthew James has been everything from a truck driver to a comedian. Inspired by his first mentor, Smoky Jon Olsen, he became a comedian and managing partner at Smoky Jon's #1 BBQ. While attending a Tony Robbins seminar, he shared his story with the group and was propelled into publishing The Journal.

The Journal: Messages to Kara
Author: Blake Matthew James
ISBN: 9781456711122
Price: $21.50

Interview with Blake Matthew James

Question: What inspired you to write your story?

Blake Matthew James: I was inspired to write this story by Kara to let her know how much she always meant to me. A saying came to me just today and I think it rings true to this story, "If she moves you, show her you will move mountains for her.


Question: Was it hard to provide an honest recount of your innermost thoughts and feelings for the love of your life?

Blake Matthew James: It wasn't hard to recount those feelings, to be completely honest. The hardest thing for me was realising that not only was the book about my love for Kara, but it was also about finding out who I always wanted to be. Now that it's in print, I need to hold myself up to that standard.

Question: How does 'Kara' feel about your writing this story?

Blake Matthew James: I would say she liked it but I also try and respect to Kara by not answering questions for her.


Question: Would you say Facebook over dating websites is the ultimate matchmaker?

Blake Matthew James: I didn't try other dating websites. My friends were talking about Facebook, which I had never used, and I asked them what it was about. My sole purpose to then make an account was to find Kara. I also tried MySpace at the time, but did not find her there.